Busy Is A Good Thing!

Hey All!

Sorry it’s been so quite here lately! We’ve been BUSY…like really, super busy!  But busy is a good thing right?  In addition to our day jobs, we’ve been booked pretty solid with photography (www.mybphotos.com) AND I’ve been pretty busy fulfilling orders and making new designs (coming soon!) at my Etsy Shop (www.etsy.com/shop/HopeStrengthandWine).  But like I said, busy is good…it’s helping us pay our medical bills from my last 2 surgeries (2 in 3 months…yikes!) AND it’s also allowing us to go back to Reprofit in the Czech Republic for another round of embryo adoption!  IF all goes as planned (I’ll know for sure June 29th when I get my ultrasound), I will be leaving July 2nd for the Czech Republic!  We are super excited, but after TWO cycles in a row being cancelled just days before I was to leave, we are a little cautious with our excitement. I will be taking my trip alone this time, so if anyone wants to fly half way across the world with me, just let me know…no, really 🙂

For the past few days, I’ve just had this gut feeling that something good is about to happen.  I’m not exactly sure what it is yet, but I’m really hoping and praying that it’s for this next cycle! I will updated everyone after my appointment on the 29th!

Xoxo – Michelle

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A Bunch of Randomness

Hey All!

Three posts in a week…I know, it’s a lot for this busy blogger and is probably why this one is one big pot of randomness!  So here it goes…

I had my second surgery on April 20th.  All went well with the surgery and we are just patiently (okay, not so patiently) waiting for the pathology reports to come back. The doctor said it didn’t look like a traditional polyp, it was more of a flap, but she’s not ruling polyps out.  IF all is well with pathology (and I really truly think it will be), then my hope is to go back to the Czech Republic in June. My doctor has decided to start me on a lower dose of estrogen and slowly bump me up in hopes that I don’t develop any more polyps.

Next…

We’ve been presented with an amazing opportunity to share our story and raise infertility awareness…I can’t go into details yet, but it’s pretty cool! But before we can do so, said storytellers are looking for someone who is a surrogate or someone who is working with or getting ready to work with a surrogate.  Is that you?  Is that someone you know?  If so, please contact me and possibly you can help!

Next….

We often get asked about what people can do to support us.  We would love any support people are able to give us!  Here are some ways to help

Next….

I’ve been meaning to share this for a while because although painfully truthful, it’s hysterical. Bill and I feel like someone based this video off of us…lol!

 

XOXO – Michelle & Bill

Infertility Etiquette

From our experience, a lot of our family and friends don’t know what to say when we start talking about our fertility issues (especially since we are so open!). They think they are saying the right things, but a lot of time they end up unintentionally saying things that can be upsetting. This awesome article from Resolve really hit home (we experienced all of this!) and has some great tips on what NOT to say after someone opens up to you about their fertility struggle.  The article is a little long, but I promise you it’s worth it!

Infertility is, indeed, a very painful struggle. The pain is similar to the grief over losing a loved one, but it is unique because it is a recurring grief. Infertile people grieve the loss of the baby that they may never know. They grieve the loss of that baby who would have had mommy’s nose and daddy’s eyes. But, each month, there is the hope that maybe that baby will be conceived after all. No matter how hard they try to prepare themselves for bad news, they still hope that this month will be different. Then, the bad news comes again, and the grief washes over the infertile couple anew. This process happens month after month, year after year. It is like having a deep cut that keeps getting opened right when it starts to heal.

As the couple moves into infertility treatments, the pain increases while the bank account depletes. The tests are invasive and embarrassing to both parties, and you feel like the doctor has taken over your bedroom. And for all of this discomfort, you pay a lot of money.

A couple will eventually resolve the infertility problem in one of three ways:

  • They will eventually conceive a baby.
  • They will stop the infertility treatments and choose to live without children.
  • They will find an alternative way to parent, such as by adopting a child or becoming a foster parent.

Reaching a resolution can take years, so your infertile loved ones need your emotional support during this journey. Most people don’t know what to say, so they wind up saying the wrong thing, which only makes the journey so much harder for their loved ones. Knowing what not to say is half of the battle to providing support.

Don’t Tell Them to Relax

Everyone knows someone who had trouble conceiving but then finally became pregnant once she “relaxed.” Couples who are able to conceive after a few months of “relaxing” are not infertile. By definition, a couple is not diagnosed as “infertile” until they have tried unsuccessfully to become pregnant for a full year. In fact, most infertility specialists will not treat a couple for infertility until they have tried to become pregnant for a year. This year weeds out the people who aren’t infertile but just need to “relax.” Those that remain are truly infertile.

Comments such as “just relax” or “try going on a cruise” create even more stress for the infertile couple, particularly the woman. The woman feels like she is doing something wrong when, in fact, there is a good chance that there is a physical problem preventing her from becoming pregnant.

These comments can also reach the point of absurdity. As a couple, my husband and I underwent two surgeries, numerous inseminations, hormone treatments, and four years of poking and prodding by doctors. Yet, people still continued to say things like, “If you just relaxed on a cruise . . .” Infertility is a diagnosable medical problem that must be treated by a doctor, and even with treatment, many couples will NEVER successfully conceive a child. Relaxation itself does not cure medical infertility.

Don’t Minimize the Problem

Failure to conceive a baby is a very painful journey. Infertile couples are surrounded by families with children. These couples watch their friends give birth to two or three children, and they watch those children grow while the couple goes home to the silence of an empty house. These couples see all of the joy that a child brings into someone’s life, and they feel the emptiness of not being able to experience the same joy.

Comments like, “Just enjoy being able to sleep late . . . .travel . . etc.,” do not offer comfort. Instead, these comments make infertile people feel like you are minimizing their pain. You wouldn’t tell somebody whose parent just died to be thankful that he no longer has to buy Father’s Day or Mother’s Day cards. Losing that one obligation doesn’t even begin to compensate for the incredible loss of losing a parent. In the same vein, being able to sleep late or travel does not provide comfort to somebody who desperately wants a child.

Don’t Say There Are Worse Things That Could Happen

Along the same lines, don’t tell your friend that there are worse things that she could be going through. Who is the final authority on what is the “worst” thing that could happen to someone? Is it going through a divorce? Watching a loved one die? Getting raped? Losing a job?

Different people react to different life experiences in different ways. To someone who has trained his whole life for the Olympics, the “worst” thing might be experiencing an injury the week before the event. To someone who has walked away from her career to become a stay-at-home wife for 40 years, watching her husband leave her for a younger woman might be the “worst” thing. And, to a woman whose sole goal in life has been to love and nurture a child, infertility may indeed be the “worst” thing that could happen.

People wouldn’t dream of telling someone whose parent just died, “It could be worse: both of your parents could be dead.” Such a comment would be considered cruel rather than comforting. In the same vein, don’t tell your friend that she could be going through worse things than infertility.

Don’t Say They Aren’t Meant to Be Parents

One of the cruelest things anyone ever said to me is, “Maybe God doesn’t intend for you to be a mother.” How incredibly insensitive to imply that I would be such a bad mother that God felt the need to divinely sterilize me. If God were in the business of divinely sterilizing women, don’t you think he would prevent the pregnancies that end in abortions? Or wouldn’t he sterilize the women who wind up neglecting and abusing their children? Even if you aren’t religious, the “maybe it’s not meant to be” comments are not comforting. Infertility is a medical condition, not a punishment from God or Mother Nature.

Don’t Ask Why They Aren’t Trying IVF

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a method in which the woman harvests multiple eggs, which are then combined with the man’s sperm in a petri dish. This is a method that can produce multiple births. People frequently ask, “Why don’t you just try IVF?” in the same casual tone they would use to ask, “Why don’t you try shopping at another store?”

Don’t Be Crude

It is appalling that I even have to include this paragraph, but some of you need to hear this-Don’t make crude jokes about your friend’s vulnerable position. Crude comments like “I’ll donate the sperm” or “Make sure the doctor uses your sperm for the insemination” are not funny, and they only irritate your friends.

Don’t Complain About Your Pregnancy

This message is for pregnant women-Just being around you is painful for your infertile friends. Seeing your belly grow is a constant reminder of what your infertile friend cannot have. Unless an infertile women plans to spend her life in a cave, she has to find a way to interact with pregnant women. However, there are things you can do as her friend to make it easier.

The number one rule is DON’T COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR PREGNANCY. I understand from my friends that, when you are pregnant, your hormones are going crazy and you experience a lot of discomfort, such as queasiness, stretch marks, and fatigue. You have every right to vent about the discomforts to any one else in your life, but don’t put your infertile friend in the position of comforting you.

Your infertile friend would give anything to experience the discomforts you are enduring because those discomforts come from a baby growing inside of you. When I heard a pregnant woman complain about morning sickness, I would think, “I’d gladly throw up for nine straight months if it meant I could have a baby.” When a pregnant woman would complain about her weight gain, I would think, “I would cut off my arm if I could be in your shoes.”

I managed to go to baby showers and hospitals to welcome my friends’ new babies, but it was hard. Without exception, it was hard. Stay sensitive to your infertile friend’s emotions, and give her the leeway that she needs to be happy for you while she cries for herself. If she can’t bring herself to hold your new baby, give her time. She isn’t rejecting you or your new baby; she is just trying to work her way through her pain to show sincere joy for you. The fact that she is willing to endure such pain in order to celebrate your new baby with you speaks volumes about how much your friendship means to her.

Don’t Treat Them Like They Are Ignorant

For some reason, some people seem to think that infertility causes a person to become unrealistic about the responsibilities of parenthood. I don’t follow the logic, but several people told me that I wouldn’t ache for a baby so much if I appreciated how much responsibility was involved in parenting.

Let’s face it-no one can fully appreciate the responsibilities involved in parenting until they are, themselves, parents. That is true whether you successfully conceived after one month or after 10 years. The length of time you spend waiting for that baby does not factor in to your appreciation of responsibility. If anything, people who have been trying to become pregnant longer have had more time to think about those responsibilities. They have also probably been around lots of babies as their friends started their families.

Perhaps part of what fuels this perception is that infertile couples have a longer time to “dream” about what being a parent will be like. Like every other couple, we have our fantasies-my child will sleep through the night, would never have a tantrum in public, and will always eat his vegetables. Let us have our fantasies. Those fantasies are some of the few parent-to-be perks that we have-let us have them. You can give us your knowing looks when we discover the truth later.

Don’t Push Adoption (Yet)

Adoption is a wonderful way for infertile people to become parents. (As an adoptive parent, I can fully vouch for this!!) However, the couple needs to work through many issues before they will be ready to make an adoption decision. Before they can make the decision to love a “stranger’s baby,” they must first grieve the loss of that baby with Daddy’s eyes and Mommy’s nose. Adoption social workers recognize the importance of the grieving process. When my husband and I went for our initial adoption interview, we expected the first question to be, “Why do you want to adopt a baby?” Instead, the question was, “Have you grieved the loss of your biological child yet?” Our social worker emphasized how important it is to shut one door before you open another.

You do, indeed, need to grieve this loss before you are ready to start the adoption process. The adoption process is very long and expensive, and it is not an easy road. So, the couple needs to be very sure that they can let go of the hope of a biological child and that they can love an adopted baby. This takes time, and some couples are never able to reach this point. If your friend cannot love a baby that isn’t her “own,” then adoption isn’t the right decision for her, and it is certainly not what is best for the baby.

Mentioning adoption in passing can be a comfort to some couples. (The only words that ever offered me comfort were from my sister, who said, “Whether through pregnancy or adoption, you will be a mother one day.”) However, “pushing” the issue can frustrate your friend. So, mention the idea in passing if it seems appropriate, and then drop it. When your friend is ready to talk about adoption, she will raise the issue herself.

So, what can you say to your infertile friends? Unless you say “I am giving you this baby,” there is nothing you can say that will erase their pain. So, take that pressure off of yourself. It isn’t your job to erase their pain, but there is a lot you can do to lessen the load. Here are a few ideas.

Let Them Know That You Care

The best thing you can do is let your infertile friends know that you care. Send them cards. Let them cry on your shoulder. If they are religious, let them know you are praying for them. Offer the same support you would offer a friend who has lost a loved one. Just knowing they can count on you to be there for them lightens the load and lets them know that they aren’t going through this alone.

Remember Them on Mother’s Day

With all of the activity on Mother’s Day, people tend to forget about women who cannot become mothers. Mother’s Day is an incredibly painful time for infertile women. You cannot get away from it-There are ads on the TV, posters at the stores, church sermons devoted to celebrating motherhood, and all of the plans for celebrating with your own mother and mother-in-law.

Mother’s Day is an important celebration and one that I relish now that I am a mother. However, it was very painful while I was waiting for my baby. Remember your infertile friends on Mother’s Day, and send them a card to let them know you are thinking of them. They will appreciate knowing that you haven’t “forgotten” them.

Support Their Decision to Stop Treatments

No couple can endure infertility treatments forever. At some point, they will stop. This is an agonizing decision to make, and it involves even more grief. Even if the couple chooses to adopt a baby, they must still first grieve the loss of that baby who would have had mommy’s nose and daddy’s eyes.

Once the couple has made the decision to stop treatments, support their decision. Don’t encourage them to try again, and don’t discourage them from adopting, if that is their choice. Once the couple has reached resolution (whether to live without children, adopt a child, or become foster parents), they can finally put that chapter of their lives behind them. Don’t try to open that chapter again.

 

National Infertility Awareness Week!! #StartAsking

Hey All!

In case you weren’t aware, this week (April 25 – 30th) is National Infertility Awareness Week.  Obviously for us it’s a HUGE deal and even if you haven’t struggled with infertility, it should be a huge deal to you too!  One in 8 couples experience infertility issues. One in 8!  Yet fertility isn’t even taught in schools or even a required conversation at your annual check up! That is why you need to be your own advocate and #StartAsking!  Start Asking is this year’s theme – it allows you to be part of the conversation about infertility and ask….

  •           Your doctor about YOUR reproductive Health
  •           Your family and friends for the support you may need
  •           Employers for insurance coverage (treatments are only covered in 15 states!)
  •           Lawmakers to support infertility legislation
  •           For understanding for those who experience infertility

Let’s get the conversation started!! It’s time to start talking about infertility!  

 

 

Here We Go Again…

Just wanted to give everyone a quick update on our trip (or lack thereof)…

I had my pre-trip ultrasound yesterday (supposed to leave on Friday for the Czech Republic) and once again they found a mass.  I sent the report to my doctor in the Czech Republic with fingers crossed that he would still let me proceed with my transfer.  Unfortunately things didn’t turn out in my favor.  He responded back this afternoon and would like me to have surgery…again…before we proceed with our next cycle. So, once again my trip is cancelled and our hopes of having a baby are on hold for a little longer.

xoxo

Michelle

Ready To Try Again

Good Morning….and YES it is a GOOD morning!  Although I have been mentally ready to go back to the Czech Republic for another try at embryo adoption, my body hasn’t been…until today!  I’ve been given the go ahead from both my Czech and US doctors to try again and it’s much sooner than anticipated.  I leave for my next trip to the Reprofit Clinic on April 1st!  It’s crazy to think that if all goes well I could be pregnant this time next month! As always, we remain cautiously optimistic, but deep down inside we are both REALLY hoping that this is the one!  Thank you all for your continued love and support!

xoxo – Michelle & Bill  surrender

Good News!

Just a quick update…I found out that the masses in my uterus were benign and most likely caused by the crazy about of estrogen I have to take to prepare my body for the embryo transfer.  Thank you to everyone that kept us in your thoughts and prayers during this time! It really means the world to us!  I’m hoping to go back to the Czech Republic in May!  I’ll keep you all posted!

xoxox

Michelle

Trust The Timing Of Your Life. Trust Your Journey.

Trust the Timing of Your Life. Trust Your Journey…this is one of my favorite quotes and I’ve really tried to lean on it during our infertility and adoption journey, but sometimes it’s just so hard to do!

As many of you know, we were matched with a new set of embryos and we made arrangements to travel back to the Czech Republic on January 30th. Unfortunately, I’m not writing this from the Czech Republic…the trip was cancelled 🙁

Three days before I was set to leave I went to one of my pre-trip doctor’s appointments.   These appointments are usually super quick – just a quick ultrasound to check your lining, they give you your results and you’re gone.  This time was a little different.  When the ultrasound was done I asked the tech what my lining was, she verbally gave me the results (Which were perfect…if you’ve been through IVF you know how crucial this is!) then asked which doctor I would be seeing that day.  I told her that I wasn’t seeing a doctor and that I just needed the printout to bring with me on my trip.  She left the room, telling me that she was going to go get the printout.  When the door opened the next time, it was the doctor, not the tech.  I immediately felt a pit in the bottom of my stomach.

The doctor told me that they found 2 small masses in my uterus and that she wasn’t exactly sure what they were.  Her actual words were, “They could be polyps, it could be scar tissue from your miscarriage, or they could be cancer. We don’t know.” At that point, I would have been okay with just the “we don’t know”. The pit in my stomach grew deeper.  They scheduled me for a saline ultrasound (it gives a better picture of what’s going on) and biopsy that afternoon.

My head was spinning when I left the office! I hadn’t asked yet, but had a feeling that they were going to cancel my embryo adoption trip.  I went home crying, grabbed Bill and then we headed to my next appointment.

The doctor did my saline ultrasound and biopsy in the same room she did the ultrasound to confirm my miscarriage.  I became flooded with emotions.  After my test she couldn’t confirm WHAT the masses were, just that they were indeed there.  She also told me that not only was I going to have to cancel my embryo adoption trip, but that I would need surgery in the immediate future as well.  Cue the tears, and surprisingly for me, anger. The doctor and nurse were trying to console me – “I know this must be tough, you’ve been through so much”.  Ummm yeah, I realize that.  I just wanted out of there.

The next few days were kind of a blur between cancelling all of my trip arrangements, communicating with my coordinator and clinic in the Czech Republic, getting my surgery scheduled, and the major pity party we were holding at our house! Canceling our trip and embryo adoption was hard enough, but now we were trying to wrap our heads around the fact that my health could be in danger and that I would be having surgery! It just didn’t seem fair, we didn’t even get to TRY this time, the chance was taken from us.  But infertility isn’t fair. Infertility is like the Grinch on Christmas morning, but honestly, I think infertility is an even bigger ass hole.

In order to keep going, we always eventually move onto the “what’s, next” mode.  Okay, so this isn’t going to work this time, what can we do next? When can we try again?  My doctor in the Czech told me that after he reviews my surgical reports and if all looks well that we could try again in May or June.  I know to most that doesn’t seem far away, but if you are in our shoes it’s an eternity.

So over the past few days I’ve been repeating, “Trust the timing of your life. Trust your journey”, trying, REALLY trying to have faith that there is a plan bigger than I can even imagine set in motion for me and my family. I’m going to be honest though, I’m not there yet, but I am REALLY trying.

We are still pursuing traditional adoption, but unfortunately we do not have the large amount of money saved up yet to pay upfront to work with an agency.  If you or someone you know or even a friend of a friend is currently looking for a family for their unborn baby, please think of us and send them our way.  Those of you that know Bill and I personally know that we have so much love to give and that it would really make our dreams come true to become parents.

Oh, and by the way, my surgery is scheduled for Monday, February 8th, so please send me all the good vibes you can!!

xoxo – MichelleTrust the timing of your life

The Good, The Bad and Moving On.

It’s been way too long since I’ve caught you up on our wild and crazy journey!  So grab a cup of coffee (or better yet wine), grab the comfy spot on the couch and read away!

In October we made our journey to the Czech Republic for our embryo adoption at Reprofit.  We flew from Miami to Vienna and spent a few days there before we hopped on the bus to Brno, Czech Republic.  Vienna is BEAUTIFUL!  We were pretty jet lagged while we were there, but we did grab some pretty amazing schnitzel at Figlmueller – It’s the home of the schnitzel!  20151018_124927_resized

We took the Student Agency  bus from Vienna, Austria to Brno, Czech Republic.  We weren’t really sure what to expect when we booked our tickets, as they cost next to nothing.  We were picturing something like a Greyhound bus, but we were pleasantly surprised when the bus arrived.  Leather seats, your own tv with movies, television, games, and they even served drinks and food! Plus it was super clean and quiet.

Our hotel, Grandhotel Brno was right across the street from the bus stop.  We choose this hotel because it’s super close to all public transportation and it’s on the outer ring of the old city, so we were able to walk to most places.  Our room wasn’t the typical small European room; it was actually pretty large, even for an American room.  All in all the hotel was pretty nice.  It was a little dated, but it was clean, the front desk was AMAZING, and we got a free Czech breakfast every morning. brno

A day after we arrive in Brno (I hear Sacha Baron Cohen in my head every time I say that word), I had my first appointment at Reprofit.  We took the tram five stops from our hotel and we were there.  Although I had seen pictures and read reviews, I still wasn’t sure what to expect.  We walked into the older building and went up the stairs to the clinic.  The clinic is VERY modern.  It’s a little different from clinics we’ve been to here in the states, but not in a bad way.  We met with our Doctor and I had a quick scan to make sure everything was okay for the transfer.  Thankfully everything was picture perfect and we were told to come back in two days for our transfer.

We arrived at our clinic the afternoon of our transfer.  We met with our Doctor again and she told us that we had two absolutely perfect hatching blastocysts ready to transfer.  That’s a HUGE deal!  We couldn’t have asked for anything better!  We were escorted to the procedure room and got down to business.  They showed us our two embryos on a screen, did a quick ultrasound, and then did the transfer.  IMG_3071She had me lay on the table for about 15 minutes after the transfer, but encouraged me to walk around the city and even have a glass of wine or two after I left the clinic.  This is COMPLETELY different from how things are done here, but we were fully committed to their process and went with it!

 

For the next few days we walked around the city.  We both ended up love the Czech Republic.  The food and beer was delicious and cheap. It was actually cheaper to drink beer than it was Coke or water, so needless to say, Bill was in heaven! We loved all of the old buildings and brick paved roads, you just felt like you were in a different time, but with all of the modern conveniences…lol. Plus everyone was just so nice! czfood

We came back home that Friday, just 2 days after our transfer (our whole trip was only 7 days).  By Sunday evening I wasn’t feeling right.  Not bad, just not right.  Against my Doctor’s advice and my better judgment, I decided to take a pregnancy test.  I KNEW it was super early and that it would probably be negative, but I just had to do it.  I’m used to seeing negative tests, so I thought I would just stand there and watch it do its thing, get a negative and test again in a few days.

Wait….are those two lines? Ummm, that’s two lines.  OMG….I’M PREGNANT!!! This was the FIRST positive pregnancy test I had ever seen in my life! I had planned on telling Bill in some super cute way, but I was in shock, so I ran into his man cave with the test.  I shoved the test in his face – “We’re pregnant!!!” Bill, in shock, “How do you know? It’s too early”.  Me, “Two lines!! Two lines mean we’re pregnant!!”

I think I test 3 more times that night, and then the next day, and the next day…all positive.  I went in for my two betas and both tests confirmed that I was indeed pregnant!  My “official” OB appointment was scheduled for a few weeks later.

My pregnancy symptoms started early and they were pretty intense, but I didn’t care because I was pregnant!  I went in for my appointment around 6 weeks.   They took my blood, and then I had my first ultrasound as a pregnant woman. TWINS!!!  They took my blood pressure right after my ultrasound and the nurse said it was a little high…Yeah it’s high, I just found out I have two little babies growing in me! Most people would be a little freaked out, actually we were too but this is exactly what we wanted!

By the time I go home I had started to spot.  I had been told that it’s completely normal, especially with twins, so I was doing my best not to be concerned.  Plus I had just left the Doctor’s office and everything was fine.  About an hour later I started cramping and then shortly after miscarried.  I can’t even begin to explain the range of emotions I went through that day.  From being ecstatic and on top of the world, to being in pain and feeling like my world was taken away from me…complete devastation.  It just felt so unfair.  We had done so much to get pregnant, why did it have to be taken away?

I think being a fertility patient trains you to be in “Okay, what’s next” mode.  Of course we were devastated from our loss, but we just wanted to know what caused it and for me to heal, so we could move on to what’s next.  Our Doctor told us that the miscarriage was just “one of those things”.  In my heart I knew that wasn’t right.  My blood work from the morning I miscarried (just a few hours prior) was perfect. If it WAS just one of those things, my numbers would have been off.  The internal ultrasound I had the morning of my miscarriage was VERY painful, to the point I had to ask her to stop.  I’ve NEVER had a painful ultrasound. I’m convinced that this “aggressive” ultrasound caused the miscarriage.

So, now what’s next?  Well, we’ve contacted the Reprofit Clinic in the Czech Republic and have been matched with a new set of embryos!  The parents are in their early 20’s, brown hair and eyes, and both are on the tall side. If all goes as planned, I’m planning on making the trip back to Brno in February! In addition to the “normal” hormones I take for a transfer cycle, I’m also going to be taking a blood thinner JUST in case some sort of clotting factor contributed towards the miscarriage. I’m also searching for a high risk OB here in St Pete (if you know one send them my way!), so hopefully history won’t repeat itself.

We’re working hard to save money for our next adoption cycle. We are both working our day jobs, and then in addition we have our Wish Bracelet shop on Etsy, our Cupcake in a Jar business, and of course our photography business MYB Photography!  Keeping busy is good for our psyche AND helps us reach our goals!

As we know more we will continue you update you all. If you have any questions about the Reprofit clinic or anything we’ve been through, please feel free to ask –we’re pretty much an open book!

Thank you all for your love and support!

xoxo – Bill & Michelle

 

Resolve Walk of Hope – Tampa

Come out and see us this Saturday in Tampa at the Resolve Walk of Hope! The Walk of Hope recognizes the many ways in which families are built, supports local support services and programs for the of women and men living with infertility, and raises public understanding of how the disease of infertility impacts families nationwide. For those of you that don’t know our story, my husband and I have struggled with infertility for many years and have now chosen to go down the path of adoption, so this organization is near and dear to our hearts!  A portion of the sale from each of our cupcakes will go to Resolve, so come out, and enjoy some amazing cupcakes while helping out a great cause!  If you want to take it one step further, you are more than welcome to join our team and walk with us – it’s a just a mile and you’ll be handsomely rewarded with cupcakes at the end 🙂 Contact me for details!

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